Perception is the new reality and yeah,i know u are probably tired of hearing that particularly since the statement has become a cliche. But, cliche or no, the way people perceive you is stronger in their minds than who you r in reality and ultimately determines how they will relate to you. So, how can u as an individual use this as a tool to improve the quality
of your life? Answer: through strategic applications of dress, poise, manners and speech.
How?
1. develop your content:your content will set the stage for the development of ur perception management objectives. ask yourself some key questions such as:
a. who am i now?
b.who do i want to be 5 years from now?
c. how do people see me?
d. how do i want them to see me?
e.what changes can i make to my life that will help me achieve my goals?
now, i don't need to remind you that you need to be very objective while answering these questions. you already know that and if you have given objective answers to these questions, your next goal will be to:
a. who am i now?
b.who do i want to be 5 years from now?
c. how do people see me?
d. how do i want them to see me?
e.what changes can i make to my life that will help me achieve my goals?
now, i don't need to remind you that you need to be very objective while answering these questions. you already know that and if you have given objective answers to these questions, your next goal will be to:
2. manage your visual impression: the answers you gave to the questions above comes into play here. do you want to be seen as a successful and confident person? then dress like that. the key is to dress with the end result in mind. make sure you look exactly the way you want to be addressed or seen. make sure that you portray the person you want to be seen as through your clothes and as you that, you will need to:
3. walk, sit, stand and behave in a manner that portrays your content. i am talking about how you carry yourself, what you say, how you say it and when you say it. you will need to learn some very necessary etiquette and protocols that will help you mingle with any class of people in the society.
these three strategies, when carefully executed will ensure your speedy attainment of your set personal goal and objectives...if you have any questions,you can reach me on 08037648830 or email me at electrandukwe@gmail.com
these three strategies, when carefully executed will ensure your speedy attainment of your set personal goal and objectives...if you have any questions,you can reach me on 08037648830 or email me at electrandukwe@gmail.com
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